idek what frugality means, i should because i’ve qualified for and been on like, food stamps before but i guess i’ve just always been poor to the point where i’m like?? why deny myself little things?? i’ll be dead one day??

but then also am stupidly frugal in other areas, like i literally didn’t get a haircut for four years because i didn’t want to pay for it, the only reason i just got one was because it was my mom’s bday gift to me.

and there are also things i just refuse to skimp on (that are not stupid)…so long as i’m already getting them? like i’ve been a server and i NEVER tip less than 25%, anything less is unfathomable to me.