☕️ Henry VIII went through so many wives bc he was always trying to match them to ideal picture he got from his mother? (I’ve only seen this a few times I’m not sure if it’s unpopular or not)

Touched on this earlier; definitely disagree.

Some of that was circumstantial (KOA having not had a living son, JS dying shortly after having one), and some of it was definitely due to his own like…issues (to say the least, lol), but I don’t think those issues were closely linked with “oh, my wife doesn’t remind me enough of my mother, we’re cancelling that right away”. 

And so many similarities are more likely incidental than anything else, imo? ‘Oh, EoY and KoA were both considered beauties by the standards of the day’, I mean…not entirely out of the ordinary for a king to wish to marry a beauty by the standards of his time? And they weren’t super similar beyond that; KOA was more politically involved (and had been an ambassador) than EoY I’d say. 

Anne Boleyn wasn’t considered a beauty by those standards; and the way she’s described makes her sound like she didn’t look much like EoY did, either: “of middling stature, swarthy complexion, long neck, wide mouth, bosom not much raised[…] eyes which are black and beautiful”. 

And idea put forth by Russell (not the EoY part, but kind of ties into this rhetoric sideways– JS was his ‘favorite’ because he reminded him the most of EoY’s model of queenship) that’s used to support this is pretty weak also. 

I.e., Henry didn’t want a politically involved wife, and “Anne becomes Catherine” (Tudors pushed this narrative also):

“A similar pattern had been played out with the King’s first marriage when, for the first four years, Henry had revelled in Katherine of Aragon’s role as Spain’s de facto ambassador to London, but then, after 1513 – perhaps upset at her success as Regent during his absence – he accused Katherine of duplicity and set about deliberately sidelining her from politics.

What is the basis for this comment about ‘sidelining’? Or jealousy, for that matter? 

In 1520, a French ambassador said KOA had made more representation than he’d expect from a Queen Consort, “as one would not have supposed she would have dared to so, on this account she is held in greater esteem by the king and council than she ever was.”

In 1534, Anne Boleyn was described as “[having] the name to be as a mediatrix between your Grace and high justice.’ 

There weren’t ever, to my knowledge, similar comments made about EoY, and I think KOA likely serves as the best example against this idea because that was his longest marriage.

hey could you say which moon sign is the most detached?

aquarian-madness:

They seem detached 

Cancer moon: This is a very natural position for the moon to be in. However they can be very private with their emotions, only keeping their true emotions within their close circle. 

Scorpio moon: Due to the secretive nature of Pluto, Scorpio’s ruling planet. That makes Scorpio moons very private with what they’re feeling. Only ever revealing their true emotions when they trust someone immensely or is under stress. 

They are detached 

Gemini moon: Ruled by Mercury, this air moon tend to think and dissect their emotions instead of feeling them. They can repress feelings and can lead to a flood of emotions coming out eventually, triggered by the most minute things.

Virgo moon: Another Mercury ruled moon sign. They can pick at their emotions, dissecting it apart instead of outright feeling it. They can be in this state of mind/heart for a long time before just feeling all their emotions and getting it out of their system. 

Libra moon: Libra is the scale, this moon sign wants balance. Inner balance is very important to them, it’s possible they might ignore a negative emotion just to keep that peace in their mind or explain it away only for it to come back later. 

Capricorn moon: Ruled by Saturn. Saturn restricts the things that it touches so it can make them more analytical of their emotions, they could prefer to not feel their emotions if they don’t have to. It can also lead to a build up of emotions.

Aquarius moon: Ruled by Uranus and co-ruled by Saturn. Their feelings can come and go very sporadically. Being an air moon, they can also prefer to think about their emotions rather than feeling. This can lead to them having an overwhelm of emotions later on. 

It can also depend on what house the moon is in. 

Moon in the water houses (4th, 8th, 12th), emotions can be kept more private regardless of the sign. That can make them seem cold or detached when they’re really not. 

Look at the aspects to moon also, it can alter the traits of whatever sign the moon is in.