like that would be it would be done!!!!!!!!

(this isn’t an omg-women-shouldn’t-put-up-with-this post btw, the reason i feel so strongly about this was that i was in a relationship where this happened to me and i didn’t stand up to it constantly myself),

i’m watching…this dude on this reality show, call his girlfriend a ‘bitch’ and ‘delusional’ (in couples’ therapy, no less…like if this is how you talk to her in the presence of a) cameras and b) the audience of a therapist, i can’t imagine how you talk to her in private) and just like……have honestly gotten to a point in my life where if i ever dated someone and they did that i would a) steal their credit card and buy myself 100 bottles of wine, b) text them to have a terrible day and c) break up with them on their birthday (if it so happened to be the next day like i would…………it would not stop me……if it was valentine’s, christmas, their birthday, whatever!!)